Yesterday was a truly lovely, enchanting engagement party. So many delightful, kind, good people.
Unfortunately, at 2am, my son insisted he was sober enough to drive home…which he was not, and we asked him to stay….I simply walked by him to close the front door…
He lashed out at me…
Remember….I was sober the entire party….
He said “you ruined the party, you were inappropriate….and so much worse….he said, and your’e loser husband….”
Now, everyone…every single person who attended thanked me for being such a gracious host and said they had a lovely time.
I am so ashamed….how did I raise an “entitled son”….he dares to make a negative remark about Chris? Chris GAVE HIM $150,000 to start life, which he used to pay for his MBA and buy a house; Chris bought him a brand new car; Chris paid for all of his college education….and he dares to make a remark?
That’s ingratitude and entitlement.
I gave my son my heart….my life from 32-50, and happily so.
I’m done. He can make his own path. I do not want to be criticized, insulted and worse after spending over $7,000 to fix my yard and work so hard to then be insulted….
It blows my mind.
But I have been abused and treated badly…and decided long ago…never again….even if it is my son….who I am so sad to say, has revealed himself to be an entitled small person.
I have informed them both….and I am not NOT changing my mind…I WILL NOT ATTEND THE WEDDING, LEST, I BE TOLD, LIKE I WAS LAST NIGHT, THAT I RUINED EVERYTHING!
But the best part my friends, is that I WAS SOBER….SO no one can blame me for anything.
Goodbye son….It was a good ride.